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What is a PAIL Doula?

Updated: May 7, 2023

A doula is a trained professional who provides emotional, physical, and informational support to individuals and their families during pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum period. Doulas can also be hired specifically for Pregnancy And Infant Loss (PAIL).


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Let's talk about some of the benefits of hiring a doula for pregnancy and infant loss.



1. Emotional support: Losing a pregnancy or an infant can be an incredibly painful and isolating experience. A doula can provide non-judgmental emotional support to individuals and their families throughout the grieving process. They can listen, validate feelings and help individuals navigate the complex emotions that come with pregnancy and infant loss. Many find it a relief to have someone that they feel they can say anything to and know that they won't be judged.


2. Advocacy: Doulas can help individuals communicate with medical professionals by preparing them ahead of time, by helping to navigate legal processes, and by assisting clients to connect with support groups and resources. PAIL doulas can also help members of the community by providing education to people and organizations about pregnancy/infant loss and the needs of those who experience it.


3. Education and guidance: PAIL doulas have specialized training in supporting people with pregnancy and infant loss. They can help individuals understand what to expect physically and emotionally during pregnancy, birth, and the grieving process (my favourite activity for grieving loved ones is legacy projects. Click here to learn about them and for a free download of ideas!). They can also guide their clients through self-care strategies and mindfulness practices to help individuals cope.



4. Ritual and ceremony: Doulas can help individuals and families create meaningful rituals and ceremonies to honour their lost loved ones, as well as build meaning around the life of their child (however brief their life was). This can be especially important for those who may not have had a chance to say goodbye or have a formal goodbye due to the nature of the loss.


Overall, hiring a doula for pregnancy and infant loss can provide individuals and their families with a supportive and compassionate companion, which is especially needed during the first year post-loss. Their presence can offer comfort, direction, reassurance, and a stable point to move forward from when it feels like nothing is balanced and the world might be falling down around you.


If you are expecting a loss or if you have experienced a loss and need some extra help processing it and your grief, reach out to me for a free consultation. I am here for you.

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